Why married now are consider a joke?

Back in the days when people married like everything in life is a process that all have to go through in order to get married first there is the romance where couples get to know each other for at least considerable amount of time before they decide that they belong with one another before making the big commitment cause tell you the true married is no joke when someone get married they consider to be the most important thing in there life is like a special day where they can impress there friend and throwing a party like no one seen before and also is commit me to each other for life when my mother and father married they were dating for almost 2 years how they meet easy question they were neighborhood the only thing separating them was just a long wall not to high cause they can see each others faces and that’s how they became lovers and they were married for 29 years until my mother pass away due to cancer but even to this day he still single with no plans of looking for a replacement he still pretty much in love with her even know she is not here anymore but his love for her defined any obstacle and even dead but back to my point now days people want to get married cause they think if they don’t do that there time will run out and they will never get another chance of enjoy that special day however married is something that no one should take lightly cause the have some good and bad the good part of being married is that you are sure you find the right woman/man in your life and you are ready to spend the rest of your life with that person no matter what the bad part is that sometimes being with one person for a very long time sometimes get really boring the love is not the same after a big while and people start questioning about everything however back in the days they have the same problems but they always find the way to overcome any situation and always making sure there married work now days people take married like is a joke and just to say the word I am married they do whatever just to say that even married some and last only 72 days that’s not right so people next time you decide I want to get married don’t make the same mistake people do make sure that you really want it for the long haul cause then you be one the statistic and that something you don’t want to be in hopefully in years to come people will be more serious about it and respect what married is all about don’t treat that special day to a point that in a week , months or even year you regret it for the rest of your live

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