Monday, November 14, 2011

Life second chances


What is life second chance is something that sometimes we can’t explain and sometimes we don’t take full advantage of it this is a true story happened to my mom may she rest in peace

Everything happened for a reason that what everyone say well sometimes is hard to understand why I was on an afternoon when I came from work and when I open the door I saw a lot of blood in the living room and then I saw my mother on the floor immediately my ex girlfriend call 911 for help she was still breathing but she was unconscious the ambulance came and they take her to the hospital I went with her and then my family was going to be there later while we were at the hospital they were doing test and checking her up she started to speak and I ask her about what happened and she that she was not feeling well and the thing that keep her alive was that she was able to throw up and then she say she fainted and she was not remember anything else so I explain what happened when I came from work and I find her like that them my family arrived and  my dad who has been by my mother side all this year started to get worry then the doctor arrived and explain to us that she was lucky for throw up all that blood but she still need to stay at the hospital for more check ups days gone bye and when I was on my way to see her the doctor saw me and he told me that she had cancer and like everyone else when find out something like that my eyes starting to get watery and I told him what are the options he say either kemo or surgery once my mother find out she started to cried to tell you the true when we were in Cuba she was never a religious person she dint believe much in god she starting to believe in him when they kick me out school and it was the school fault but they dint want to admitted and she went there and talk to the school director and they give me another chance to do my final test that how she believe that there is something out there that can change peoples life so she say after they told her that she had cancer that everything was on god hands and it truly was she opted for surgery but the hospital dint want to risk it and them a doctor for a catholic hospital one of the best in the country say he do the surgery and the hospital pays for it so he transfer her to that hospital and days later we were there waiting the good news on how the surgery was going after 10 ½ hours the doctor came out and told us that everything was good and they were able to remove all the cancer and it was true they do a scanner on her and see no sign of the cancer anywhere once she get out the hospital it was like a new day for her she was feeling happy that god was able to intervene and that everything went well .

Back in the days she used to smoke a lot my father drink a lot and sometimes my father embarrassed a lot with his drinking problem that she decide it to join him every time he drink and at the end she started drinking more than him at the place we were living next door neighborhood he was a witchcraft and I think he got tired of my mother late night drinking with other people that he must have done something to her cause she told me that he give her a bear and when she drink it she felt something estrange but she continue to drink however after what happened to her she stop drinking completely quick smoking I took her to her first kemo therapy but when she started hear the effect of what kemo does she got scare and she never went anymore but she was feeling well however second chances you really need do everything by the book and she starting doing thing like she used to in the pass all at home we tell her to stop but she dint pay us much of a attention and then it happened she started to get sick again and this time was worse she starting to have problem breath and she was rush to the hospital again and the cancer came back again after month of going out the hospital and going back she decide to get the kemo but it was to late now the cancer was to strong this time the night before she die she started to having problem breath we call the ambulance but the paramedic told me something that makes a lot of sense if we take her to the hospital she will be in more pain cause they were starting to put needles on her she be in even more pain he told me leave her here with you guys at least if she die she will be at home with the people she love it was hard to make that decision but we decide to leave her at home but she dint last that long she died the next day

To my point never take life for granted when you are awarded a second chance a lot of people don’t get that opportunity enjoy every moment of it and it you do get a second chance make the best of it don’t get back to your old ways this is a true story most people don’t even get second chance in life

The promise I made to my mother



Is been almost two year since my mother die and something in the back of my head keep bothering and until I fulfilled is not going to go away when I came from Cuba in 1997 I just finish there the 10 grade I went to school here but I never got to finish high school and I told her I will do whatever it takes to finish so I take a home school course but somehow along the way money was tight and cant continue to pay for the school and have to stop doing it and she keep insisting on me to do it again but for one reason or another something was always in the way and then my mother start to get sick with the cancer and took my mind out that then I started my own family and that take even more time out me more problems occur and no one to blame but me for not sticking to the task at hand and a couple years ago I told her that I was going to do it again and I even promise her that I was going to finish this time I am doing my high school diploma and so far I am doing pretty good I know once I am done she will be proud even know she is not here to see it I know that everything I do she is looking over and once I get the diploma she will be even more proud of me for making it a reality the only thing I wish is to see her smile on her face when finally get the diploma and look at the sky and say no promise is never broken if you have the valor to make happened

The history of the greatest ppv ever in Wwe history



 
When I comes to ppv no one does better than the Wwe especially Wrestlermania ppv since is the like the super bowl in football the wwe take great pride in create a spectacle like no one ever see they always do a day before the ppv an all out access to the public so they can see all the superstar and take pictures, autograph of there favor superstar and after that they do the hall fame ceremonies which I think like every sport is an honor to the people inducted for all the years they have given there all to the fans and what better place to do it on wrestlermania weekend but how the ppv came to life and it became so successful that even know thru out the year they have ppv every one dream to be in the main event at Wrestlermania

How many Wrestlermania have been done since the fist one and why is different every year and make even more interesting especially next year in Miami with the main event already set months ago with John Cena vs. the Rock

Till this day is been 27 Wrestlermania with out counting the one next year and all have been successful

The first one was made in 1985 and here is the complete list provide by the wikipedia website




Mr. T vs. Roddy Piper in a Boxing match
Battle Royal featuring superstars and athletes from the WWF and NFL
Hulk Hogan (c) vs. King Kong Bundy in a Steel Cage match for the WWF Championship[17]

Hulk Hogan (c) vs. André the Giant for the WWF Championship [18]

Hulk Hogan vs. André The Giant[Note 2]
Randy Savage vs. Ted DiBiase in a tournament final for the vacant WWF Championship[19][Note 2]

WrestleMania V April 2, 1989 Atlantic City, New Jersey Trump Plaza
 Randy Savage (c) vs. Hulk Hogan for the WWF Championship [20]

Hulk Hogan vs. The Ultimate Warrior for the WWF and Intercontinental Championships[21] WrestleMania VII March 24, 1991 Los Angeles, California LA Sports Arena The Ultimate Warrior vs. Randy Savage in a Retirement match
Sgt. Slaughter (c) vs. Hulk Hogan for the WWF Championship[22]

 Ric Flair (c) vs. Randy Savage for the WWF Championship
Hulk Hogan vs. Sid Justice [23]

 Bret Hart (c) vs. Yokosuka for the WWF Championship [Note 3]
Yokosuka (c) vs. Hulk Hogan for the WWF Championship [24] [Note 3]

WrestleMania X March 20, 1994 New York, New York Madison Square Garden
Yokozuna (c) vs. Lex Luger for the WWF Championship [Note 4]
Yokozuna (c) vs. Bret Hart for the WWF Championship [25]

Diesel (c) vs. Shawn Michaels for the WWF Championship
Lawrence Taylor vs. Bam Bam Bigelow [26]

Bret Hart (c) vs. Shawn Michaels in a 60 Minute Iron Man match for the WWF Championship [27]

WrestleMania 13 March 23, 1997 Rosemont, Illinois Rosemont Horizon
 Bret Hart vs. Steve Austin in a No Disqualification Submission match
Sycho Sid (c) vs. The Undertaker in a No disqualification match for the WWF Championship[28]

 Shawn Michaels (c) vs. Steve Austin for the WWF Championship [29]

The Rock (c) vs. Steve Austin for the WWF Championship [30]

WrestleMania 2000 April 2, 2000 Anaheim, California Arrowhead Pond
Triple H (c) vs. the Rock vs. Big Show vs. Mick Foley for the WWF Championship [31]

 Shane McMahon vs. Vince McMahon in a street fight
The Rock (c) vs. Steve Austin in a No Disqualification match for the WWF Championship [32]

WrestleMania X8 March 17, 2002 Toronto, Ontario SkyDome
The Rock vs. Hollywood Hulk Hogan[Note 2]
Chris Jericho (c) vs. Triple H for the Undisputed Championship[33][Note 2]

Triple H (c) vs. Booker T for the World Heavyweight Championship
Hulk Hogan vs. Vince McMahon[Note 2]
The Rock vs. Steve Austin
Kurt Angle (c) vs. Brock Lesnar for the WWE Championship[34]

WrestleMania XX March 14, 2004 New York, New York Madison Square Garden
 Brock Lesnar vs. Goldberg
Kane vs. Undertaker
Eddie Guerrero (c) vs. Kurt Angle for the WWE Championship
Triple H (c) vs. Chris Benoit vs. Shawn Michaels for the World Heavyweight Championship[35]

WrestleMania 21 April 3, 2005 Los Angeles, California Staples Center
 John "Bradshaw" Layfield (c) vs. John Cena for the WWE Championship [36]
Triple H (c) vs. Batista for the World Heavyweight Championship [36]

 WrestleMania 22 April 2, 2006 Rosemont, Illinois Allstate Arena
 Kurt Angle (c) vs. Rey Mysterio vs. Randy Orton for the World Heavyweight Championship
John Cena (c) vs. Triple H for the WWE Championship

Batista (c) vs. The Undertaker for the World Heavyweight Championship
Bobby Lashley (for Donald Trump) vs. Umaga (for Vince McMahon)[Note 2]
John Cena (c) vs. Shawn Michaels for the WWE Championship

 Chavo Guerrero (c) vs. Kane for the ECW Championship
Randy Orton (c) vs. John Cena vs. Triple H for the WWE Championship
Floyd Mayweather vs. The Big Show[Note 2]
Edge (c) vs. The Undertaker for the World Heavyweight Championship

WrestleMania XXV April 5, 2009 Houston, Texas Reliant Stadium
 Edge (c) vs. John Cena vs. the Big Show for the World Heavyweight Championship
Triple H (c) vs. Randy Orton for the WWE Championship

Chris Jericho (c) vs. Edge for the World Heavyweight Championship
Batista (c) vs. John Cena for the WWE Championship
The Undertaker vs. Shawn Michaels [Note 2]

Edge (c) vs. Alberto Del Rio for the World Heavyweight Championship
The Undertaker vs. Triple H
The Miz (c) vs. John Cena for the WWE Championship

John Cena vs. The Rock


And for years to come Wrestlermania still be one the best ppv in all sport no matter what anyone say

How my understanding improve since the I came to the states


Since I came in 1997 my understanding of the language English has been improve substantial enough that I can create conversation with almost any one I can talk about any topic like if I was talking in my birth language Spanish I never thought I could learn a language cause when I was in high school they were teaching English but I really was not concentrating enough to pay attention and I dint have the interest to learn however I never thought ever I was leaving the country even know my dad is a political refugee and he have the chance to leave the country anytime he want all he has to do was present the paper at the embassy and he can leave once they approve him however he dint want to leave his family behind and at that time we could still make end meat even know the country was in a very bad shape in every aspect especially economic it was hard to stay a flow everyone there just tried to survive and some back staving people with prices on food they dint care if they know you since you were born but then again all the blame goes to the people in charge them we left the country and came to the states were we went to Alabama which it was the perfect place to learn I went to the school there I have my share of embarrassing moments where I was ready to give up but my inner soul was not ready to throw the towel in cause the way I am is not in me to quit I never been a quitter I am a fighter and the language was not going to slow me down but I wont lie if for a moment in my life I was ready to give up when I was in my country were some times that was really hard for me but I understand the language and I was able to speak however when I was in school here classes that it use to be easy for me became hard cause I cant understand the teacher and anyone around me but I don’t know what it is about me that I always have a good effect on people that they willing to help me even if they don’t know me that well the second in charge at the school help me a lot he even told my mother that I was one of the best person he ever meet and my mom was so proud of me they been change my classes and they put me in one where they teach English to student from outside the usa to tell you the true I dint learn anything in that class the teacher had more preference to the Vietnams people in the class than the rest of us but it dint stop me from learning the language my way I was determined to learn and help my family when they need to read a letter or buy something at the store or even return something in my time at the school I meet another Cuban guy that he came 3 years before me and he help me also I meet more people in there but the inability to speak or understand was making it difficult to keep adding more friends however I started to using the subtitle on the TV on every program I watch I even use my favorite TV show wwf was call at that time now wwe and listen to what they saying every time someone was talking on the microphone I started understand little by little one time my friend and I went to the store to exchange a Nintendo 64 for a play station that my father bough me and I listen to every word he say and when I feel ready enough I went with my mother to a one of those places like rent to own cause she want it to buy a living room and I was able to talk to the people there and translate to my mother word for word to everything that she was saying and also I was able to speak to the person there everything that my mother wanting to know when we done that I came out the store I told her I am ready I don’t need anyone help anymore and since I been in this country for like 14 years now I been able to do thing that in my wildest dream I never thought I could so to all the people learning a new language or even living in a country that is not our own birth place never give up when thing are hard just remember that there is not an easy road in life and don’t get me wrong they are but not the safest one just remember at the end of every straggle in life is the satisfaction of being able to say I did just like me I am a living proof that with a little inner strength you can accomplish anything even if it is speak a language outside of your own
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