Friday, November 11, 2011

Distance is not for the fearful ... It is for the tough and the brave..


Distance is not for the fearful, it is for the bold. It's for those who are willing to spend alot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough...

What is love?






Oh man. Here we go. I might have to make a part two to this. But love. What is love? Love is the feeling and emotion for something and someone that you find attractive and pleasurable in your mind and heart. Love can be to many things, hobbies, possessions, events, and especially people. Love for humans. That is truly amazing. Love in humans is so indescribable, that I don't even think I can say it all on this post. The willingness to go out of your way, your comfort zone, to sacrifice what you like to do more of this and less of that, to go out of your way, for someone because you love them, is beyond me. I use to have a girlfriend that I thought I loved. But it was blinded from what I wanted to do, people, and mistakes. But that feeling can still linger after so long. Anyways, love...
LOVE IS HAPPINESS. To be able to see the same person, everyday , no matter what they look like, what they've done, what they've said, who they're with, where they're from, how they do things, and still love them truly a miracle from God. You don't love someone when you change them because you have too; you love someone when they change you...
LOVE IS SACRIFICIAL. People everyday, sacrifice money, time, friends, family, events, opportunities, experiences, openings, etc... For someone they love. You have to do that extra, because you love someone so much. And this is what I love about love so much. It makes people want to go out of their way to make that person smile. Did you catch that? It makes someone WANT to go out of their way to make that person smile. And that just astounds me at times. That little extra to be cuter, funnier, or wittier then the next guy for him/her is the greatest accomplishment for the lover...
LOVE IS UNENDING. Love is Unending. You can never stop it. No matter how many mistakes you made or that person made, you know deep down that you can't starry away from that person. It just felt, right, to a point where when it stops even for a second, you lose who you are. It's boundless and always there, never stopping for a second because you don't want to even have the risk of losing it...
LOVE IS CUTE. Yeah, so what if people see you hug her/him from behind and say those married couple nicknames? So what if you tell your friends "nah I can't because I need to be with that person tonight"? So what if you have to tell that person in front of EVERYBODY something important? So what if you hold her hand, or hug her, or kiss her in front of EVERYBODY? So what if you stay up all night to talk to that person, just to say good morning in a matter of minutes? So what if you look like garbage but you need to see that person right away? So what if everyone tells you "No, it's not going to work" or " No she's/he's not right for you just look at him/her!"? So what...
But anyways, what is love? Love is that feeling that keeps someone alive. It is the reason why each and every one of us are here now, in this world. We were made to love and accept it...
So, when you see that person. No matter when or where. You don't walk, but run. RUN to that person, hug him/her as HARD as you can and just whisper "I Love you and nothing will ever change that."
Go. Find that person. He's/she's waiting... :)

Why married now are consider a joke?












Back in the days when people married like everything in life is a process that all have to go through in order to get married first there is the romance where couples get to know each other for at least considerable amount of time before they decide that they belong with one another before making the big commitment cause tell you the true married is no joke when someone get married they consider to be the most important thing in there life is like a special day where they can impress there friend and throwing a party like no one seen before and also is commit me to each other for life when my mother and father married they were dating for almost 2 years how they meet easy question they were neighborhood the only thing separating them was just a long wall not to high cause they can see each others faces and that’s how they became lovers and they were married for 29 years until my mother pass away due to cancer but even to this day he still single with no plans of looking for a replacement he still pretty much in love with her even know she is not here anymore but his love for her defined any obstacle and even dead but back to my point now days people want to get married cause they think if they don’t do that there time will run out and they will never get another chance of enjoy that special day however married is something that no one should take lightly cause the have some good and bad the good part of being married is that you are sure you find the right woman/man in your life and you are ready to spend the rest of your life with that person no matter what the bad part is that sometimes being with one person for a very long time sometimes get really boring the love is not the same after a big while and people start questioning about everything however back in the days they have the same problems but they always find the way to overcome any situation and always making sure there married work now days people take married like is a joke and just to say the word I am married they do whatever just to say that even married some and last only 72 days that’s not right so people next time you decide I want to get married don’t make the same mistake people do make sure that you really want it for the long haul cause then you be one the statistic and that something you don’t want to be in hopefully in years to come people will be more serious about it and respect what married is all about don’t treat that special day to a point that in a week , months or even year you regret it for the rest of your live


Please leave comments always appreciate any thing anyone have to say about it 

Power of Love

By Hemakumar Nanayakkara


 
Drown deeply in starry sparkling eyes
Bathe soothingly in the sea of romance
Float smoothly on curving water waves
Disappear the blues in aquamarine ocean.

Fly high across unlimited moonlit sky
Stray among stars in a faraway milky way
Glide towards galaxies of celestial lights
Let the troubles disappear in afar darkness.

Blissful whispers flow all over in the air
Moments of joy adorn the serenity of lives
Wondrous times harmonize every heart and mind
Existence of true love lasts forever-timeless.

Swiftly lead into raptures over divine true romance
Adorable smiles blooming like blossoms of red roses
Trail bewitching paths cherishing every amorous moment
United hearts surrender to the supreme power of love.