"Relationships"

INFIDELITY- yea it's bound to happen in a relationship people do cheat on their spouses in a relationship sometimes boyfriends/girlfriends tend to get bored with their relationships and want to find someone new to replace him/her maybe because the sex wasn't hot enough or maybe because he/she just wanted someone more fun than him/her .....

COMMUNICATION BREAKDOWN - okay this tends to happen a lot now a day in a relationship where people will talk for a long time then after awhile communication stops like theirs less calling and less talking face to face.....

SEXUAL INCOMPATIBILITY- okay now talking about the sexual stuff if theres not enough sex in the relationship then the relationship will get really boring really fast and sometimes guys/girls will get mad or angry if his/her relationship doesn't have sex with them very often as he/she wants them too and this can be one of the major reasons why guys/girls tends to leave their relationship cause he/she isn't getting enough sex.....

my two sons

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Beat Holiday Debt Now

A friend recently confessed to me that she's still paying off last year's holiday gift-buying bills! Start saving today so you don't ring in the New Year with a Visa hangover.

By Beth Kobliner

                                                                             
1. Budget and don't budge .
Figure out exactly how much you can afford to drop on presents without jeopardizing your regular bills. Then, siphon off a little money from each paycheck for the next six weeks so you aren't dipping into your emergency savings or relying on credit to play Secret Santa. Consider stashing the cash in a savings account (watch out for fees!) so you aren't tempted to blow it.

2. Skip Black Friday . The day after Thanksgiving is the gateway to holiday spending sprees. Though you may find some deals, retailers have a dirty little secret: "For a limited time only" or "While supplies last" promotions are classic ways to trick you into buying things you don't need by making you think they're about to sell out. (They rarely are.) My strategy: Avoid the frenzy by knocking your whole list out by the week before Thanksgiving. The morning after Turkey Day? Stay home and eat pie.

3. Buy virtually . Shoppers are willing to pay about 50 percent more for stuff they can actually touch, according to a recent study from Caltech, so the free samples and product demos stores offer during the holidays can put a wrench in your spending plan. Try to stick to the Internet, and make your first stop couponsherpa.com to score special discount codes.

My kids are my life?

From the first time my ex girlfriend say the word pregnant my world chatter complete is not that I dint want it back them is that like everyone else that hear that word is not ready for it and I was not with some many thing to do and not that I was living my life careless or living like rock start partied all weekend long no that was not me I was living responsible working , staying out trouble , concentrating in me and staying out the drama inside my family and friends but them I realize that it was time to get even more serious about life cause It was not about me anymore now I have a big responsibility and even know I was not ready I was determine to face head on and with some support from my family a meant lest face it was there first grandchild my mother was not to happy about it cause she think that my ex got pregnant on purpose and so the drama unfold between her and not that I don’t listen to what a good mother have to say but I was surprise she think that way about some one but after a while she started to accept the fact and she begin to be more understandable about the situation and she started give my ex some support and help her in anyway she can and I started to feel more relieve about the situation I never think she did that on purpose even know the mind is a difficult place it makes you believe otherwise I can lie about in my mind I was thinking different but not to the point of think that she was doing that on purpose and then when the big day arrived and I was there seeing how it developed I when I saw the baby coming out and I hold it for the first time I say to myself why I was thinking I was not ready for it how can you be not ready for something so beautiful that a lot of people that can’t have babies die to experience the joy of having something that you help create come to live and all the joy of being father for the first time brings how can I say I was not ready till that moment me that since I was little I always take on any challenge that approach in my life and always tried to do the very best in me under any circumstance no matter what the outcome is I always be proud at the end that I know I give my all to succeeded and when it come to my first child I dint have a word I was scared but see in him for the first time in my life I realize that there is no reason to be scare about anything anymore he changes me complete and I know that as long as I have breath in my body and soul I be there for him till the end I share with him everything that my father share with me cause he is and always been there for me I make sure that I am able to guide him trough out his life and making sure he succeed in every aspect and on whatever decision he makes that I support him and if I can give him advice on everything he needs he can count on me no matter what the situation is as long as I alive my conditional support for him is more than 100%

And then it happened my second child was born and this time I was prepare for it emotionally happy but with sadness cause my mother dint see him but I know that she watch him over and she watch over both and all of us and since my second child born is been more than life changing with my two boys I can see them play together , fight , being funny with one another hug each other which is cute celebrate two birthdays every year which is not easy but I do my best every time I go anywhere my older one always come with me and he always trick me to buy him a toy but even when I say no I realize that when I was in Cuba my family tried harder to make my childhood really pleasant and even with the way the country was doing that it was hard to get anything they always find a way to give us something that make us happy and now I tried to provide my kids with something they enjoy in a country where you have money you can buy almost anything you like so why not but I always teach them that when situation are tough and can get there ways no reason to be upset or start crying cause I know thing will get better and when thing are better I always buy them more than one toys and I also teach my kids to share with the people that share with you and be respectful of everyone else and most important thing be good in school and pay attention to everything and yea people will say but there are to little and I always say if you don’t teach them now since they are little when they grow up you already miss the time to show them something and whatever happened after don’t blame them blame yourself for not teach them when you have a chance

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Roberto Cosa