"Relationships"

INFIDELITY- yea it's bound to happen in a relationship people do cheat on their spouses in a relationship sometimes boyfriends/girlfriends tend to get bored with their relationships and want to find someone new to replace him/her maybe because the sex wasn't hot enough or maybe because he/she just wanted someone more fun than him/her .....

COMMUNICATION BREAKDOWN - okay this tends to happen a lot now a day in a relationship where people will talk for a long time then after awhile communication stops like theirs less calling and less talking face to face.....

SEXUAL INCOMPATIBILITY- okay now talking about the sexual stuff if theres not enough sex in the relationship then the relationship will get really boring really fast and sometimes guys/girls will get mad or angry if his/her relationship doesn't have sex with them very often as he/she wants them too and this can be one of the major reasons why guys/girls tends to leave their relationship cause he/she isn't getting enough sex.....

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Beat Holiday Debt Now

A friend recently confessed to me that she's still paying off last year's holiday gift-buying bills! Start saving today so you don't ring in the New Year with a Visa hangover.

By Beth Kobliner

                                                                             
1. Budget and don't budge .
Figure out exactly how much you can afford to drop on presents without jeopardizing your regular bills. Then, siphon off a little money from each paycheck for the next six weeks so you aren't dipping into your emergency savings or relying on credit to play Secret Santa. Consider stashing the cash in a savings account (watch out for fees!) so you aren't tempted to blow it.

2. Skip Black Friday . The day after Thanksgiving is the gateway to holiday spending sprees. Though you may find some deals, retailers have a dirty little secret: "For a limited time only" or "While supplies last" promotions are classic ways to trick you into buying things you don't need by making you think they're about to sell out. (They rarely are.) My strategy: Avoid the frenzy by knocking your whole list out by the week before Thanksgiving. The morning after Turkey Day? Stay home and eat pie.

3. Buy virtually . Shoppers are willing to pay about 50 percent more for stuff they can actually touch, according to a recent study from Caltech, so the free samples and product demos stores offer during the holidays can put a wrench in your spending plan. Try to stick to the Internet, and make your first stop couponsherpa.com to score special discount codes.

My kids are my life?

From the first time my ex girlfriend say the word pregnant my world chatter complete is not that I dint want it back them is that like everyone else that hear that word is not ready for it and I was not with some many thing to do and not that I was living my life careless or living like rock start partied all weekend long no that was not me I was living responsible working , staying out trouble , concentrating in me and staying out the drama inside my family and friends but them I realize that it was time to get even more serious about life cause It was not about me anymore now I have a big responsibility and even know I was not ready I was determine to face head on and with some support from my family a meant lest face it was there first grandchild my mother was not to happy about it cause she think that my ex got pregnant on purpose and so the drama unfold between her and not that I don’t listen to what a good mother have to say but I was surprise she think that way about some one but after a while she started to accept the fact and she begin to be more understandable about the situation and she started give my ex some support and help her in anyway she can and I started to feel more relieve about the situation I never think she did that on purpose even know the mind is a difficult place it makes you believe otherwise I can lie about in my mind I was thinking different but not to the point of think that she was doing that on purpose and then when the big day arrived and I was there seeing how it developed I when I saw the baby coming out and I hold it for the first time I say to myself why I was thinking I was not ready for it how can you be not ready for something so beautiful that a lot of people that can’t have babies die to experience the joy of having something that you help create come to live and all the joy of being father for the first time brings how can I say I was not ready till that moment me that since I was little I always take on any challenge that approach in my life and always tried to do the very best in me under any circumstance no matter what the outcome is I always be proud at the end that I know I give my all to succeeded and when it come to my first child I dint have a word I was scared but see in him for the first time in my life I realize that there is no reason to be scare about anything anymore he changes me complete and I know that as long as I have breath in my body and soul I be there for him till the end I share with him everything that my father share with me cause he is and always been there for me I make sure that I am able to guide him trough out his life and making sure he succeed in every aspect and on whatever decision he makes that I support him and if I can give him advice on everything he needs he can count on me no matter what the situation is as long as I alive my conditional support for him is more than 100%

And then it happened my second child was born and this time I was prepare for it emotionally happy but with sadness cause my mother dint see him but I know that she watch him over and she watch over both and all of us and since my second child born is been more than life changing with my two boys I can see them play together , fight , being funny with one another hug each other which is cute celebrate two birthdays every year which is not easy but I do my best every time I go anywhere my older one always come with me and he always trick me to buy him a toy but even when I say no I realize that when I was in Cuba my family tried harder to make my childhood really pleasant and even with the way the country was doing that it was hard to get anything they always find a way to give us something that make us happy and now I tried to provide my kids with something they enjoy in a country where you have money you can buy almost anything you like so why not but I always teach them that when situation are tough and can get there ways no reason to be upset or start crying cause I know thing will get better and when thing are better I always buy them more than one toys and I also teach my kids to share with the people that share with you and be respectful of everyone else and most important thing be good in school and pay attention to everything and yea people will say but there are to little and I always say if you don’t teach them now since they are little when they grow up you already miss the time to show them something and whatever happened after don’t blame them blame yourself for not teach them when you have a chance

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Roberto Cosa

What is happened to the moral of people?

I been listen to what is happened on Penn state university and since the release of what is happened there is been crazy for the people involve and the victims family and I been thinking to myself how can people live with themselves after what happened there years ago why no one come forward and alert the authorities about what is transcended inside the school years ago and even Joe paterno when he receive the news of what happened the first thing he should have done is to alert the authorities about the situation or even he intervene and not just say to higher authorities in school about what happened and just go on about his business that is not right is upsetting to see a person with some much power doing nothing because he just want to look the other way and not getting involve in that well guest what you are involve and if you think caring more about your legacy then more of what happened under your watch you are as bad a person as the rest of the people who knew about it and as for the person that is been charge with the child abuse I hope that person rotten himself in prison and is not even allow for parole and believe karma is always comeback and bites in the ass whatever bad thing you do in life at the end it will happened back to you tenfold those kids that you abuse there life is been change forever I am a proud parent and when I hear on the news of stories like that it make sick to my stomach that people the live in our society that has committed crimes like that are allow to stay alive crimes like that should be punish by dead even know I am writing this and I always tried to be a good citizen I don’t know what I do years from now but is hard not to judge people like that when you are a father the same thing can happened to anybody however decent people will never let that go away the way it happened there that is the most disgusting thing can ever happened to human being especially when are little you as a parent put your trust in people and this is how they repay you come man why are people like that with no feeling or remorse whatsoever they can do thing knowing the consequences of there actions and still they don’t care about it I hope they don’t make the same mistake when it come to making the final decision at the trial and lets us pray for the moral of the people sometimes looking the other way is not good enough doing the right thing is cause you never know if that could happened to you or someone in your family and then when you want answers you realize is not there fault is yours     

Another part of my life

I want to talk about relation and the real meaning of being with someone and been able to enjoy everything with this person not just the physical attraction but also you have to love everything about this person no matter what sometimes we end that with the wrong person and we say to our self how that happened and why but there stuff in life we can’t explain and sometimes is even out fault that we end that with someone else but even that you have to make it work cause if is that the person god put in our life we have to make it work even if we are unhappy for the rest of our lives knowing that we let an opportunity pass by and we dint even make the effort in trying but in our heart always be a place for that especial someone and even know that person is with someone else you get the feeling that if is not in this life maybe in the next you two will meet again and hopefully this time you wont make the same mistake